Watchman Nee – SIT Walk and Stand : The True Story of an Engineer whose wife committed the sin of Adultery and our relationship with God and Christ Finished work Part 1 SIT

Watchman Nee – SIT, Walk and Stand: The True Story of an Engineer whose wife committed the sin of Adultery and our relationship with God and Christ Finished work – Part 1 Sit

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An engineer living in a large city in the West left his homeland for the Far East. He was away for two or three years, and during his absence his wife was unfaithful to him and went off with one of his best friends. On his return home he found he had lost his wife, his two children and his best friend. At the close of a meeting which I was addressing, this grief-stricken man unburdened himself to me. ‘Day and night for two solid years my heart has been full of hatred,’ he said. ‘I am a Christian, and I knew Tought to forgive my wife and my friend, but though I try and try to forgive them, I simply cannot. Every day I resolve to love them, and every day I fail. What can I do about it?” Do nothing at all,’ I replied. ‘What do you mean?” he asked, startled. ‘Am I to continue to hate them?’ So I explained: ‘The solution of your problem lies here, that when the Lord Jesus died on the Cross he not only bore your sins away but He bore you away too. When He was crucified, your old man was crucified in Him, so that that unforgiving “you”, who simply cannot love those who have wronged you, has been taken right out of the way in His death.

God has dealt with the whole situation in the Cross, and there is nothing left for you to deal with. Just say to Him, “Lord, I cannot love and I give up trying, but I count on Thy perfect love. I cannot forgive, but I trust Thee to forgive instead of me, and to do so henceforth in me.” The man sat there amazed and said, “That’s all so new, I feel I must do something about it.’ Then a moment later he added again, ‘But what can I do?’ ‘God is waiting till you cease to do,’ I said.  ‘When you cease doing, then God will begin. Have you ever tried to save a drowning man? The trouble is that his fear prevents him trusting himself to you. When that is so, there are just two ways of going about it. Either you must knock him unconscious and then drag him to the shore, or else you must leave him to struggle and shout until his strength gives way before you go to his rescue. If you try to save him while he has any strength left, he will clutch at you in his terror and drag you under, and both he and you will be lost. God is waiting for your store of strength to be utterly exhausted before He can deliver you. Once you have ceased to struggle, He will do everything. God is waiting for you to despair.’

My engineer friend jumped up. ‘Brother,’ he said, ‘I’ve seen it. Praise God, it’s all right now with me! There’s nothing for me to do. He has done it all!’
And with a radiant face he went off rejoicing.

‘The God of our Lord Jesus Christ,… Raised him from the dead, and made him to sit at his right hand in the heavenly places, far above all rule, and authority, and power, and dominion, and every name that is named, not only in this world, but also in that which is to come’ Ephesians (1.17-21).
And raised us up with him, and made us to sit with him in the heavenly places, in Christ Jesus:… For by grace have ben saved through faith; and that not of ye yourselves: it is the gift of God: not of works, that no man should glory’ Ephesians (2. 6-9).

‘God…made him to sit… and made us to sit with him.’ Let us first consider the implications of
this word ‘sit’. As we have said, it reveals the secret of a heavenly life. Christian life does not begin with walking; it begins with sitting. The Christian era began with Christ, of whom we are told that, when He had made purification of sins, He’sat down on the right hand of the Majesty on high’ (Heb. 1. 3).
With equal truth we can say that the individual Christian life begins with a man ‘in Christ-
– that is to say when by faith we see ourselves seated together with Him in the heavens.
Most Christians make the mistake of trying to walk in order to be able to sit, but that is a reversal of the true order. Our natural reason says, If we do not walk, how can we ever reach the goal? What can we attain Without effort? How can we ever get anywhere if we do not move? But Christianity is a queer business! It at the outset we try to do anything, we get nothing; if we seek to attain something, we miss everything. For Christianity begins not with a big DO, but with a big DONE.

Thus Ephesians opens with the statement that God has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ’  Ephesians (1. 3) and we are invited at the very outset to sit down and enjoy what God has done for us; not to set out to try and attain it for
ourselves.
” Walking implies effort, whereas God says that we are saved, not by works, but ‘by grace
Through faith’ (2. 8). We constantly speak of being ‘saved through faith’, but what do we mean by it?
We mean this, that we are saved by reposing in the Lord Jesus. We did nothing whatever to save ourselves; we simply laid upon Him the burden of our sin sick souls. We began our Christian life by depending not upon our own doing but upon what He had done. Until a man does this he is no Christian; for to say: I can do nothing to save myself; but by His grace God has done everything for me in Christ’, is to take the first step in the life of faith. The Christian life from start to finish is based upon this principle of utter dependence upon the Lord Jesus.
There is no limit to the grace God is willing to bestow upon us. He will give us everything, but we can receive none of it except as we rest in Him. ‘Sitting’ is an attitude of rest.
Something has been finished, work stops, and we sit. It is paradoxical, but true, that we only advance in the Christian life as we learn first of all to sitdown.

What does it really mean to sit down? When we walk or stand we bear on our legs all the weight of our own body, but when we sit down our entire  weight rest upon the chair or couch on which we sit. We grow weary when we walk or stand, but we feel rested when we have sat down for a while. In walking or standing we expend a great deal of energy, but when we are seated we relax at once, because the strain no longer falls upon our muscles and nerves but upon something outside of ourselves. So also in the spiritual realm, to sit down is simply to rest our whole weight- our load, ourselves, our future, everything- upon the Lord. We let Him bear the responsibility and cease to carry it ourselves. This was God’s principle from the beginning
In the creation God worked from the first to the sixth day and rested on the seventh. We may
truthfully say that for those first six days He was very busy. Then, the task he had set Himself
completed. He ceased to work. The seventh day became the sabbath of God; it was God’s rest.

But what of Adam? Where did he stand in relation to the rest of God? Adam, we are told, was
created on the sixth day. Clearly, then, he had no part in those first six days of work, for he came into being only at their end. God’s seventh day was, in fact, Adam’s first. Whereas God worked six days and then enjoyed His sabbath rest, Adam began his life with the sabbath: for God works before He rests, while man must first enter into God’s rest, and then alone can he work. Moreover it was because God’s work of creation was truly complete that Adam’s life could begin with rest. And here is the Gospel: that God has gone one stage further and has completed also the work of redemption, and that we need do nothing whatever to merit it, but can enter by faith directly into the values of His finished work.

Of course we know that between two historic facts, between God’s rest in creation and God’s rest in redemption, there lies the whole tragic story of Adam’s sin and judgment, of man’s unceasing, unprofitable labour, and of the coming of the Son of God to toil and to give Himself until the lost position was recovered. ‘My Father worketh even until now, and I work’, He explained as He pursued His way. Only with the atoning price paid could He
cry: ‘It is finished!’
But because of the triumphant cry, the analogy we have drawn is a true one. Christianity indeed means that God has done everything in Christ, and that we simply step by faith into the enjoyment of that fact. Our keyword here is not of course, in its context, a command to ‘sit down’ but to see ourselves as ‘seated’ in Christ. Paul prays that the eyes of or heart may be enlightened (1. 18) to understand all that is contained for us in this double fact, that God has first by mighty power ‘made him to sit’, and then by grace ‘made us to sit with him’. And the first lesson we must learn is this, that the work is not initially ours at all, but His. It is
not that we work for God, but that He works for us. God gives us our position of rest.
He brings His Son’s finished work and presents it to us, and then He says to us, ‘Please sit’ (ch’ eng tso). His offer to us cannot, I think, be better expressed than in the words of the invitation to the great banquet: ‘Come; for all things are now ready’ (Luke 14-17). Our Christian life begins with the discovery of what God has provided. From this point onwards Christian experience proceeds as it began, not on the basis of our own work but always on that of the finished work of Another. Every new spiritual experience begins with an acceptance by faith of what God has done- with a new ‘sitting down’, if you like. This is a principle of life, and one which God Himself has appointed; and from beginning to end, each successive stage of the Christian life follows on the same divinely determined principle.
How can I receive the power of the Spirit for service? Must I labour for it? Must I plead with God. for it? Must I afflict my soul by fastings and self- denials to merit it? Never! That is not the teaching of Scripture. Think again: how did we receive the forgiveness of our sins? Paul tells us that it was ‘according to the riches of his grace’, and that this was ‘freely bestowed on us in the Beloved’ Ephesians (1. 6, 7).
We did nothing to merit it. We have our redemption through His blood, that is, on the
ground of what He has done.

What, then, is God’s basis for the outpouring of the Spirit? It is the exaltation of the Lord Jesus (Acts 2.33). Because Jesus died on the Cross my sins are forgiven; because he is exalted to the throne I am endued with power from on high. The one gift is no dependent than the other upon what I am or more what I do. I did not merit forgiveness, and neither do I merit the gift of the Spirit. I receive everything not by walking but by sitting down, not by doing but by resting in the Lord. Hence, just as there is no need to wait for the initial experience of salvation, so there is no need to wait for the Spirit’s outpouring. Let me assure you that you need not plead with God for this gift, nor agonise, nor hold ‘tarrying meetings’. It is yours not because of your doing but because of the exaltation of Christ, ‘in whom, having also believed, ye were sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise’. This, no less than the forgiveness of sins, is contained in ‘the gospel of your salvation’ (1.13).

Or consider another subject, one that is a special theme of Ephesians. How do we become
members of Christ? What fits us to be parts of that Body which Paul speaks of as ‘the fulness of him’? Certainly we never arrive there by walking. I am not joined to Him by effort of my own. “There is one body and one Spirit, even as also ye were called in one hope of your calling’ (4. 4). Ephesians sets forth what is. It starts with Jesus Christ, and with the fact
that God chose us in Him before the foundation of the world (1.4). When the Holy Spirit shows us Christ and we believe on Him, then at once, with no union with Him. Further act on our part, there begins for us a life in But if all these things become ours by faith
alone, what then of the now very urgent and practical matter of our sanctification? How can we know present deliverance from sin’s reign? How is Our ‘old man’, who has followed us and troubled us for years, to be ‘crucified’ and put away? Once again the secret is not in walking but in sitting; not in doing but in resting in something done.

‘We died to sin,’ we ‘were baptized… unto his death’. ‘We were buried with him.’ ‘God … quickened us together with Christ.’ (Rom. 6. 2, 3, 4; Eph. 2. 5.) All these statements are in the past (aorist) tense. Why is this? Because the Lord Jesus was crucified outside Jerusalem nearly two thousand years ago, and I was crucified with Him. This is the great historic fact. By it His experience has now become my spiritual history, and God can speak of me as already having everything ‘with Him’. All that I now have I have ‘with Christ’. In the Scriptures we never find these things spoken of as in the future, nor even to be desired in the present. They are historic facts of Christ, into which all we who have believed have entered.

‘With Christ’ – crucified, quickened, raised, set in the heavelies: to the human mind these ideas are no less puzzling than were the words of Jesus to Nicodemus in John 3.3. There it was a question of how to be born again. Here it is something even more improbable- something not only to be effected in us, as new birth, but to be seen and accepted as ours because it has already been effected long ago in Someone else. How could such a thing be? We cannot explain. We must receive it from God as something He has done. We were not born with Christ, but we were crucified with Him (Gal. 2.20). Our union with Him began therefore with His death. God included us in Him there. We were ‘with Him’ because we were ‘in Him’.

But how can I be sure that I am ‘in Christ’? I can be sure because the Bible affirms that it is so, and that it was God who put me there. ‘Of him [God] are ye in Christ Jesus’ (1 Cor. 1. 30). ‘He that stablisheth us with you in Christ is God’ (2Cor.1:21). It is something accomplished by Him in His sovereign wisdom, to be seen, believed, accepted, and rejoiced in by us.

If I put a dollar note between the pages of a magazine, and then burn the magazine, where is
the dollar note? It has gone the same way as the magazine- to ashes. Where the one goes the other goes too. Their history has become one. But, just as effectively, God has put us in Christ. What happened to Him happened also to us. All the experiences He met, we too have met in Him. ‘Our old man was crucified with him, that the body of sin might be done away, that so we should no longer be in bondage to sin’ (Rom. 6.6). That is not an exhortation to struggle. That is history: our history, written in Christ before we were born. Do
you believe that? It is true! Our crucifixion with Christ is a glorious historic fact. Our deliverance from sin is based, not on what we can do, nor even on what God is going to do for us, but on what he has already done for us in Christ. When that fact dawns upon us and we rest back upon it (Rom. 6. 11), then we have found the secret of a holy life.
But it is true that we know all too little of this in experience. Consider an example.

If someone makes a very unkind remark about you in your presence, how do you meet the situation? You compress your lips, clench your teeth, swallow hard, and take a firm grip upon yourself; and if with a great effort you manage to suppress all sign of resentment and be reasonably polite in return, you feel you have gained a great victory. But the resentment is still there; it has merely been covered up. And at times you do not even succeed in covering it. What is the trouble? The trouble is that you are trying to walk before you have sat down, and that way lies sure defeat. Let me repeat: no Christian experience begins with walking, but
always with a definite sitting down.  The secret of deliverance from sin is not to do something but to rest on what God has done.

GOD THE GIVER

Of all the parables in the Gospels, that of the prodigal son affords, I think, the supreme illustration of the way to please God. The father says: ‘It was meet to make merry and be glad’ (Luke 15. 32), and in these words Jesus reveals what it is that, in the sphere of redemption, supremely rejoices His Father’s heart. It is not an elder brother who toils incessantly for the father, but a younger brother who lets the father do everything for him. It is not an elder brother who always wants to be the giver, but a younger brother who is always willing
to be the receiver. When the prodigal returned home, having wasted his substance in riotous
living, the father had not a word of rebuke for the waste nor a word of inquiry regarding the
substance. He did not sorrow over all that was spent; he only rejoiced over the opportunity the son’s return afforded him for spending more.

God is so wealthy that His chief delight is to give. His treasure-stores are so full that it is pain to Him when we refuse Him an opportunity of lavishing those treasures upon us. It was the
father’s joy that he could find in the prodigal an applicant for the robe, the ring, the shoes, and the feast; it was his sorrow that in the elder son he found no such applicant. It is a grief to the heart of God when we try to provide things for Him. He is so very, very rich. It gives Him true joy when we just let Him give and give and give again to us. It is a grief to Him, too, when we try to do things for Him, for he is so very, very able. He longs that we will just let Him do and do and do. He wants to be the Giver eternally, and he wants to be the Doer
eternally. If only we saw how rich and how great He is, we would leave all the giving and all the doing to Him.

Do you think that if you cease trying to please God your good behaviour will cease? If you leave all the giving and all the working to God, do you think the result will be less satisfactory than if you do some of it? It is when we seek to do it ourselves that we place ourselves back again under the Law.

But the works of the Law, even our best efforts are’ dead works’, hateful to God because ineffectual. In the parable, both sons were equally far removed from the joys of the father’s house. True, the elder son was not in far country, yet he was only at home in theory. ‘These many years do I serve thee, and yet…: his heart had not found rest. His theoretical position could never, as did the prodigal’s, come to be enjoyed by him while he still clung to his own
good works, Just you stop ‘giving’, and you will prove what a Giver God is! Stop ‘working’, and you will discover what a Worker He is! The younger son was all wrong, but he came home and he found rest-and that is where Christian life begins. ‘God, being rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us… Made us to sit with him in the heavenly

places, in Christ Jesus’ (Eph. 2. 4, 6). ‘It was meet to make merry and be glad!’

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