*The Fire of Fury: Why Uncontrolled Anger Burns Your Future + The Story of Lyra, a brilliant architect with anger problem*
Tuesday, May 6th, 2025
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*_Prayer for Asia and Middle East – Age old Anger is brewing over this region – Isreal, Gaza, Syria, Yemen, India, Pakistan, North and South Korea, Japan, and China.. the list goes on. Take some time today to call for Gods rule and reign in these regions of over 4.8 billion people. Ask for peace, salvation, and revival in this nation._*
*The Story of Lyra, a brilliant architect with anger problem*
Lyra, a brilliant architect with a portfolio brimming with award-winning designs, possessed a fiery temper. Her ideas were sharp, precise, and often revolutionary, but her reactions to criticism, to setbacks, to even the smallest inconveniences, were volcanic. She’d explode, her voice rising in a crescendo of accusations and recriminations, leaving a trail of hurt and resentment in its wake.
Her first major project, a sprawling community center, was a masterpiece. The design was innovative, the materials sustainable, and the community buzzed with anticipation. But Lyra’s anger, fueled by a perceived slight from a rival architect, manifested in a series of escalating conflicts with the construction team. Minor delays became insurmountable obstacles, and her outbursts, once private, became public spectacles, poisoning the project’s atmosphere. The once-thriving collaboration crumbled, and the community center, a symbol of hope, became a symbol of her mismanagement.
The project’s failure wasn’t just a professional setback; it was a personal tragedy. Lyra lost the respect of her colleagues, the trust of her clients, and the support of her friends. She became isolated, her brilliant mind clouded by the smoke of her own anger.
Years passed. Lyra, now a recluse, worked on smaller projects, her designs increasingly stifled by her fear of repeating the past. She saw the success of other architects, their smooth collaborations, their calm responses to challenges, and a deep, gnawing envy consumed her. She was trapped in a cycle of self-inflicted punishment. Her anger, like a corrosive acid, was eating away at her future, one project, one relationship, one opportunity at a time.
One evening, while browsing through old photographs, she stumbled upon a sketch of the community center, a faded image of a vibrant space, now a ghost of its former self. It was a stark reminder of her past. In that moment, a profound realization dawned upon her. Her anger hadn’t just damaged the project; it had damaged her. It had choked off her creativity, her empathy, and most importantly, her ability to connect with others.
She recalled a wise mentor who had once told her, “Anger is a fire that burns everything in its path, including the future you seek to build.” The words resonated with a painful clarity. Lyra knew she had to change.
She began to meditate, to practice mindfulness, to confront her triggers. It wasn’t easy. The old habits, the ingrained patterns of anger, were deeply rooted. But slowly, painstakingly, she began to cultivate emotional intelligence. She learned to recognize the early signs of anger, to pause before exploding, and to respond with compassion instead of condemnation.
Her next project, a modest housing development, was a testament to her transformation. Lyra collaborated seamlessly with the team, her designs refined by careful consideration and her interactions marked by respect and understanding. The project was a success, not just financially, but also in fostering a sense of community.
Lyra realized that uncontrolled anger wasn’t merely a character flaw; it was a self-destructive force that consumed its victims. Her journey was a harsh lesson, a painful but ultimately necessary experience that transformed her from a brilliant but volatile architect into a compassionate and successful leader. She learned that building a successful future required not just talent, but also the mastery of one’s emotions. And that the most enduring structures were those built on understanding, not on the ashes of uncontrolled anger.
*Further insights on anger*
*Uncontrollable anger is like a wildfire—it destroys everything in its path, leaving behind ashes of broken relationships, ruined reputations, and deep regret. *”A wrathful man stirs up strife, but he who is slow to anger allays contention”* (Proverbs 15:18). If you find yourself constantly exploding in rage, it’s time to wake up. This behavior will not lead you to anything good.
The Bible warns that anger, when left unchecked, opens the door to sin and foolishness. *“Be angry, and do not sin: do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil”* (Ephesians 4:26-27). Anger itself is not always sinful—Jesus displayed righteous anger—but when it becomes uncontrollable, it becomes a tool of destruction rather than correction. *“The anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God”* (James 1:20).
Explosive anger often stems from pride, fear, or unresolved pain. Instead of surrendering these emotions to God, we let them control us, lashing out at those around us. *“He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city”* (Proverbs 16:32). True strength is not in outbursts but in self-control.
If you struggle with rage, it’s time to humble yourself before God. *“Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice”* (Ephesians 4:31). Seek His help through prayer, Scripture, and accountability. The Holy Spirit can transform your heart, replacing fury with peace. *“The fruit of the Spirit is… self-control”* (Galatians 5:22-23).
Don’t let anger steal your future. *“A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger”* (Proverbs 15:1). Choose wisdom over wrath, and let God heal your heart.
Shalom!
Ambassador Monday O. Ogbe
God’s Eagle Ministries GEMs
https://www.otakada.org
