Knowing Her & Knowing Him: 40 Days to Healing, Understanding, and Lasting Love
Authors: Ambassador Monday O. Ogbe, Zacharias Godseagle, Comfort Ladi Ogbe
Now Available in Ebook & Paperback Formats on Amazon
Watch the trailer here: https://youtube.com/shorts/O_7yb_Mq6qM
Blog link – https://www.otakada.org/knowing-her-knowing-him-40-days-to-healing-understanding-and-lasting-love/
INTRODUCTION
What if love is not enough… without understanding?
Most relationships don’t fall apart because people stop loving each other — but because they never fully understood each other to begin with.
Welcome to Knowing Her & Knowing Him, a soul-stirring, story-rich 40-day devotional designed to help men understand women, women understand men, and couples love like Christ loved the Church — sacrificially, tenderly, purposefully.
Whether you’re single, married, divorced, engaged, or leading others, this book brings healing, insight, and spiritual wisdom to the heart of every human relationship.
♂️♀️ WHO THIS BOOK IS FOR:
✅ Married couples who feel stuck in emotional distance, arguments, or cold silence
✅ Singles preparing for godly love, not fantasy or confusion
✅ Engaged partners building a solid foundation of understanding
✅ Divorced individuals seeking healing, perspective, and restoration
✅ Parents and families impacted by broken marriages or strained communication
✅ Pastors, counselors, and ministry leaders guiding others through emotional and relational healing
WHAT YOU’LL DISCOVER IN THESE 40 DAYS:
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40 transformational attributes of women every man needs to understand
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40 insightful traits of men every woman should know
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Emotional and spiritual breakthroughs through prayer, journaling, and self-reflection
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Biblical wisdom from Ephesians 5, Genesis 2, Proverbs 31, 1 Peter 3, Ecclesiastes 9:9, and more
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Heartbreaking and heartwarming stories from all seven continents that will open your eyes
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Real-life scenarios, both redeemed and broken — showing how miscommunication, trauma, and pride destroy intimacy
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A companion workbook, personality discovery test, and healing meditations
WHAT MAKES THIS BOOK DIFFERENT?
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It is not just theory — it is action-driven and healing-focused
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It balances both the spiritual and emotional aspects of love
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It respects the divine design of gender differences, celebrating how God made men and women
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It’s packed with real-life global stories and lessons that will linger
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It’s designed to be used alone, with a spouse, in a group, or even as a pre-marital tool
INSIDE THE JOURNEY:
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40 days of devotionals, reflections, and prayers
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40 journaling opportunities to process and apply truth
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End-of-journey breakthrough guide and personality insights
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Bonus content for leaders, church groups, and counselors
WATCH THE OFFICIAL TRAILER HERE:
https://youtube.com/shorts/O_7yb_Mq6qM
Let the stories move you. Let the truth convict you. Let the Spirit lead you to reconciliation.
ORDER NOW ON AMAZON
Ebook (Kindle) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FGC4V3D9
Paperback https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FGJX9GPC
HOW TO USE THIS BOOK EFFECTIVELY:
Use it daily as a devotional
Read it as a couple for 40 days
Facilitate it in small groups, marriage classes, or churches
Use it in counseling or premarital sessions
Gift it to someone you know needs healing or hope
SHARE THIS MOVEMENT
Post about it on your social platforms
Recommend it to your church or ministry group
Talk about it with your friends, children, or mentees
️ Let this message echo across homes, churches, and nations
